October 3rd holds so many emotions for me. First, it has a great meaning to me as Amy and I were married on October 3, 2004. It is so rare that you marry someone and they become your best friend. We just celebrated our six years 5 days after Amy had surgery. I look back on that day on the beach in Maui and smile. The greatest day of my life along with the birth of our son Jackson.
Another happy memory is the anniversary of my best friend Jason Cabana and his wonderful wife, Heather. They were married 12 years ago overlooking Puddingdtone. I have known Jason since we were 11 and is like a brother to me. Congrats you guys.
Unfortunately, October 3rd also holds a very heartbreaking event for many others besides myself. On October 3, 1996, one of the most awesome people I have ever had the honor to know, Tim Crowther, passed away. The world lost a gem that day. I have blogged about Tim in the past and have espoused his genius. I cannot say enough about him. Tim was the true meaning of selflessness. He gave his time to so many in the Glendora community. He always had time for everyone. If he didn't, he would make time. He was the man that you only read stories about. He could be a hard ass but give you a hug at the same time. I know because I experienced it.
He left behind an awesome wife and two great kids. Donna is just great. She has a kick ass sense of humor and a laugh that is infectious. Dan has followed in the footsteps of his dad and became a peace officer for the City of Arcadia. He was recently promoted to Sergeant. Tim would be so proud. I haven't seen Dana since she was about 14, but through Facebook I see that she has two beautiful daughters and loves being a mom. Good for you Dana.
Tim brought so much to many lives, mine especially. It is hard to share a day of so much happiness and so much sorrow. I love my wife and my friends and miss Tim so much. That day is such a bittersweet one for me.
